When facing obstacles or difficulties, sometimes there is a sudden turn of events. This sudden turn is symbolized in legend as a horseman who appears on the road, offering assistance to a traveling party. Fearing him to be a robber, they refuse his offer. Later, it becomes clear that the horseman is not a bandit, but a man seeking to marry a young maiden who is in the traveling party. At first, she too refuses, but relents later when the time is right.
Like that maiden, you must not rush into a mismatch, be it marriage or some other kind of partnership. It is far better to wait for the right moment, even if this means working hard for a long time before you can enjoy the fruits of success. Although you look forward enthusiastically to relief from this situation, it may be the wrong solution that appeals to you now, one full of restrictive obligations. For the time being, you should remain "chaste," or uncommitted. In times of movement against obstacles, a high priority must be placed on maintaining your freedom.
